Wednesday, October 22

a beautiful bizarre*

me talking to and kissing boho baby, photo by boho boy

boho boy talking to boho baby

k and her beautiful swelling belly

We arrived home late last night and slept more peaceful than we have in so long. Today I've been walking around sort of on a puffy cloud. We both have. We keep looking at one another smiling and saying "we're having a baby soon".

The path to our baby is SO different than I imagined but as each minute goes by, it couldn't feel more right...and I cannot believe I am saying these things.

When she opened the door and I saw our birth mom for the first time (going forward, we will call her "K" on this blog), I was mesmerized by her beautiful big clear blue eyes. I didn't even look at her belly. Just her face and how lovely she was. She had a warm smile. I felt a lump in my throat and all I could do was embrace her. She smelled sweet like a baby. Why was I not feeling strange or awkward or fearful or jealous? All I was feeling was joy and excitement and a serious urge to know her more as a person. Boho Boy hugged her and touched her belly and said hello to boho baby inside. I didn't go there yet. I hugged the birth father (we are calling him "T" on this blog going forward). They warmly and gently welcomed us in to sit on the couch and chat. So we did. I nestled next to K and Boho Boy next to T and we started having our separate conversations.

My dear friend Stacy had made me and K matching necklaces that had the word "Brave" engraved on the pendant. I had K open the gift and she immediately lit up all over and put hers on. So did I. I felt like the spirit of my tribe were surrounding me, giggling like girly girls and dancing around us in complete joy. It gave me comfort and energized me. I think K picked up on it. Our moods were harmonious.

I looked over at the guys and they were already laughing and being dudes. Is this for real? Yes, it is folks. It was totally surreal and amazing. Every moment.

The whole day felt like we were hanging out with new friends. Conversation flowed so smoothly and our curiosity about one another was satisfied by question after question about our lives, interests, hobbies, history. I mean, it all happened so naturally. The way it does with friends. Nothing felt contrived or forced or like either of us were being interviewed. We mostly learned about one another by telling stories.

I was surprised that I wasn't feeling as emotional as I thought. Emotional in the sense where I imagined I would break down in tears the minute I saw her belly. I think the idea that she was carrying my child was too grand for me to grasp. I just wanted to get to know her and T. I questioned myself whether or not that was okay. Why was I not feeling emotionally connected to the baby in her belly? Why did it seem detached from the baby boy I have had in my mind? I set those worries aside and just marinated in the joy I was feeling getting to know two really cool people.

Then towards the end of the day, after breaking bread together and shopping together, K and I got in the back seat of the car and I just decided to be brave and lift up her shirt and touch her belly. That's when it happened. That's when it hit me. That is when for the first time all day, I felt like a mother about to have a baby. My hand on her skin got really warm and then all of a sudden I felt a hard kick on my palm and then another flutter. My jaw dropped and so did hers. I stared at her belly in shock and all the visions I have had of my son came rushing into my head. He is in there. Right there. This is the closest I have ever been to his physical body. My eyes filled with tears and K said "he's trying to tell you that he knows you're here."..and I said "I'm going to cry", almost as if to ask for permission and she said..."please, do...go ahead, cry." So we both laughed and I wiped my tears and took a deep breath. It all came together for me and I felt like my heart was going to burst out of my chest.

From that moment on I have felt a deep and true happiness that I haven't ever felt before. A burning of joy that began swirling around inside of me and it hasn't gone away.

Today I wrote to a dear friend "I am so happy honey, totally happy..."to which that statement made my friend fall apart with tears. So many of my loved ones have written and left voicemails or text messages or blog comments that they are weepy with joy for us. Now I understand what they feel.

The following day before we headed home, we spent a few hours with K & T again. We shared more stories. We snuggled on the couch to gaze at ultrasound photos. We laughed. Talked about favorite films and books. Discovered we all have a lot in common and have lived in the same town at different times. I was utterly floored at how connected our lives seemed to be.

K on several occasions has referred to the baby in her belly as "your baby"...which, we find so very selfless and brave and are forever grateful for. She has been so generous in her reassurance that her and T have made the most perfect choice for them and this child by choosing us as the adoptive parents. I never once felt like it was wrong for me to be happy about this in her presence. She makes it very clear that our happiness is her comfort in that this baby will be so truly loved and taken good care of.

Honestly, I cannot believe I am saying the things I am saying. Boho Boy and I fully realize how unique and amazing this situation is and how truly blessed we are. We walked into this with so many fears and so many preconceived ideas of what felt comfortable to us. Many of those fears have fallen away and a trust and faith and an unfolding has taken place.

We are now just taking one day at a time and not putting any worry into what will come. What has transpired has proven to us that we are exactly where we are supposed to be.

We are humbled by all the positive, gentle, non-judgmental and wide open support we are receiving from family and friends. I'd like to say we don't need that but that couldn't be further from the truth. What we are doing is so vulnerable and huge and unfamiliar that we feel we are being carried by all these amazing love-warriors in our life. Thank you...each and every one of you. Yes, that means you.

K is still having contractions, so it could be any day now where we get the call and fly back out and try our best to get there for the birth and be with her in the room to coach, help her breathe, rub her back, hold our baby and then well...to be continued. ; )

It's all so bizarre...but a beautiful bizarre.


Anonymous Anonymous said...

Thank you so much for sharing your story. Truly, so many people are sharing in your happiness. Even complete strangers like me. Boho Baby is truly, truly lucky.

October 22, 2008 at 9:57:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Erin Alaska said...

So happy that you and Boho boy are coming full circle in your journey. Everyone that knows you in life and through blogs has known that this dream would one day come true. I am so excited for you and can't wait for the 'to be continued' of it all.
:)namaste, erin

October 22, 2008 at 10:04:00 PM PDT  
Blogger NZ Toomeys said...

Wow, Boho girl. Your story blows me away. I am a birth mother of some one elses child and to see my own story told from another persons perspective is truly something else.

I wish you ALL so much happines.



October 22, 2008 at 10:11:00 PM PDT  
Blogger christianne said...

Okay, so big tears cascading over my eyelashes and cheeks. This is such a beautiful story. I've never heard anything like it. It is perfect for you two.

Lots of love,

October 22, 2008 at 10:53:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Georgia said...

I am jumping up and down and squealing and crying all over again :)

I am soooo beyond thrilled for you both!!!

October 22, 2008 at 11:11:00 PM PDT  
Blogger lexiloo said...

YAY! i'm glad everything went smoothly with the birth mom and i can't wait to hear the next chapter!!!

October 22, 2008 at 11:14:00 PM PDT  
Blogger pERiWinKle said...

Denise & Carsten!

2 words:

gratitude and awe!

Have to send you an email!!!

Big hug Sweetie!!! Sooooo big!!!! xx

October 22, 2008 at 11:45:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I alternately got shivers and had to smile widely as I read this. I am SO GLAD that things went well! How beautiful that he gave you a welcoming kick!

Congratulations to the Bohos on your upcoming baby boy!

October 22, 2008 at 11:56:00 PM PDT  
Blogger pERiWinKle said...

Denise...please send me your telephone number...I need to phone you...linmalan@btinternet.com.

Gorgeous you...for more gratitude and awe...read my blog as from July this year...

I cannot stop smiling...gratitude my friend...and absolute amazement!

I love you! xx

October 22, 2008 at 11:57:00 PM PDT  
Blogger AnnaC said...

So, so incredibly happy for you and your family!!

I don't know why but since I started reading your blog, I have felt that this is how your first baby would come -- what a tremendous gift to the world: a completely loved and wanted baby!!

I wish you all the very best!

October 22, 2008 at 11:59:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What a lovely post and a lovely energy radiating from you, shared through your generosity to give your words and images in giving and sharing of this intimate and personal part of your life.

As one who so wanted a baby for so long and having to come to terms with the unlikelihood of it to be in this life I read your lovely words with a mixture of sincere and unfettered joy for you, and also a deep understanding of the emotions you express.

I also read it with a little twinge in my own heart for what has not been, but am so amazingly grateful that someone with a heart such as yours is to be a mother to this new little life. I know I am a stranger, but I have this feeling somehow the universe is singing as love is being given more room and space to expand through the miracle that has come into your life.

Thank you for letting us bask in your bliss and share in your journey.

October 23, 2008 at 12:00:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

My eyes were filled with tears of joy for you reading this Denise. Wonderful photos and the post just radiates happiness! I'm so happy for you and Boho boy.

October 23, 2008 at 12:03:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Pen said...

it couldn't be more perfect or more {right}. i have been checking your blog daily, waiting for this update: and it's made my day! you and boho boy are going to be parents any day now!!! whoopeee!!! xxx

October 23, 2008 at 12:30:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Silvia said...

o honey

i have goosebumps
and tears in my eyes.

this is just magical.


October 23, 2008 at 12:41:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

a lovely story. i am so pleased for you and your husband. brave is the perfect word for all of you. take care.

October 23, 2008 at 1:25:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Vanessa said...

the unfolding of your story is such a special joy to witness, boho family. dreamlike and yet so real... your words and these wonderful, wonderful pictures make it so palpable and real. congratulations. love xxx

October 23, 2008 at 2:44:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Congrats dear Boho Girl! I´ve been reading your blog for a long time now. Last weeks I´ve been very busy and I haven´t checked it but this morning I felt that I have to read it and here it is, the new we -me too!- were waiting for. It makes me feel so happy. Your path has been hard, but hard paths make amazing souls. You will be a wonderful parents. Much love. Xena xxxx

October 23, 2008 at 2:59:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Busymomma66 said...

So happy for you! The blessings seem to abound all around here.

October 23, 2008 at 2:59:00 AM PDT  
Blogger kristen said...

i'm so happy for you - i think i've been holding my breath since you and boho boy left last week.

these photos are magical and i can't wait for the day we finally get to see your son.

much love. xo

October 23, 2008 at 3:42:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is amazingly, wonderfully, magically beautiful. This is your family being born. As a mother who wishes so much to know my daughters' birthparents, I can only watch in awe and with much gratitude for the way you have opened your hearts to your readers. I am sending much peace and strength to all four of boho baby's parents in the days ahead...xo

October 23, 2008 at 5:07:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Lisa said...

beautifully speechless...

October 23, 2008 at 5:30:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you are a beautiful soul and "of course" your baby knew you were there. he has chosen you!
i am elated that it all went so very well for you and your husband. we will be anxiously awaiting the birth of your new little guy.

you are going to be a magical mommy!
babies are ever so delicious.

peace and love to you...

October 23, 2008 at 5:47:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

You have friends everywhere, known and unknown sharing in your journey. We are so happy for you.

October 23, 2008 at 5:53:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is a really beautiful chapter in a rich and telling story. The pure happiness and joy shows through every word.

Congratulations to everyone.

October 23, 2008 at 6:22:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Scott and Christie said...

Weeping with joy over here, and leaping for love!

October 23, 2008 at 6:25:00 AM PDT  
Blogger melissa said...

I just got chills...again...and tears in my eyes. So.very.happy.for.you!!! xoxo

October 23, 2008 at 6:31:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Ali Ambrosio said...

Incredible!! And so special...

October 23, 2008 at 6:38:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

When his kick met your palm...it was the affirming hand holding to come of a union that was destined to embrace. K & T are so indescribably lovely...what a beautiful quartet of parents and biological contributors you foursome are. Boho Baby is cradled within the Boho box and four sides of love that has guided you to him and him to you. My best blessings of bounty. Boys are Joys!

Much love,

October 23, 2008 at 6:42:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Kirsten Michelle said...

tears are flowing as i type this and just when i think, i couldn't be any happier for the two of you, i feel the joy in my heart expanding once again.
this time the four of you spent together sounds so beautiful, honey...such a important piece of the journey.
i'm looking forward to the magic that comes next!!!
love, love, love.

October 23, 2008 at 6:51:00 AM PDT  
Blogger rak said...

Such a harmonious turn of events for the two of you...and you both seem to be singing right along :)

October 23, 2008 at 6:56:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

And my joyful tears keep flowing...!
I am so glad that your weekend was as magical as we all hoped it would be.

October 23, 2008 at 6:57:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


An amazing start to the the journey ahead. Magic is surrounding you now.

Can't wait to read the next entry, and I am sending you love and support.

October 23, 2008 at 6:59:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...


October 23, 2008 at 7:00:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Teaworthy said...

I am so, so happy for you. You already are an amazing, inspiring mom. Congratulations!

October 23, 2008 at 7:03:00 AM PDT  
Blogger jo said...

Tears...big tumbling tears of joy and heartfelt prayers for all of you.

October 23, 2008 at 7:09:00 AM PDT  
Blogger daisies said...

the bizarre beauty of life, it always gives me tears of the very best kind :) and then makes me want to fling my arms wide and twirl :) xox

October 23, 2008 at 7:45:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

That first picture of you kissing K's belly instantly made me cry! I am ecstatic for you. The best is yet to come!


October 23, 2008 at 7:48:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Rowena said...

So beautiful. I am holding my breath and crossing my fingers for everyone involved. What a wonderful way to begin a family.

So much love.

October 23, 2008 at 8:04:00 AM PDT  
Blogger jennifer said...

I am so excited for you, waiting and waiting for a long awaited baby and knowing that the wait is almost over is so amazing and surreal. Enjoy every moment of it.

Much love,

October 23, 2008 at 8:08:00 AM PDT  
Blogger enchantedartist said...

Over the moon for you Denise! Faraway tears of joy for you and Boho boy...and the deep connection you found with your baby's birth parents...
Beautiful bizarre...oh yes it is...life. :)


October 23, 2008 at 8:21:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Martha-Anne said...

What a gorgeous post, Denise!

October 23, 2008 at 8:31:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Erin said...

What a lovely tribute to motherhood both you and K make. Wishing you all peace and joy as you enter this new, amazing place together.

October 23, 2008 at 8:46:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Jamie said...

I've been waiting for this story :)....and I'm sitting here with so many happy tears streaming down my face that I can hardly see the screen to write how incredibly happy I am for you. My heart is overflowing........
What a beautiful story you have been blessed with. :)

October 23, 2008 at 8:54:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

crying...totally crying. i'm so so very happy for you and boho boy...you are truly blessed.


October 23, 2008 at 8:59:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

my skin and heart are all tingly. what an amazing story. how beautiful that boho baby is surrounded by so much love.

October 23, 2008 at 9:01:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Eileen W. said...

I'm tearing up writing this with joy for you both, all!! It is truly beautiful what is happening. (((hugs)))

October 23, 2008 at 9:14:00 AM PDT  
Blogger deb schwedhelm photography said...

i'm crying...tears of joy. tears of excitement. tears of happiness. wonderfully amazing. thank you for sharing. can't wait till you get to hold your boho boy.

October 23, 2008 at 9:29:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

and some very happy tears for you all

October 23, 2008 at 10:04:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Malinda said...

thank you for sharing your story... although my DH and I have only been TTC for a year now I feel as though your story has opened me up to possibility... you have made me think and approach things differently then I would have months ago... I can't even really find the words to describe it but you have effected me with your words and your photography and I find assurances in your words that not only do I really want to become a mother but I want to be a better artist, a better communicator, a better more open and loving person.

My heart stops when I see a new post pop up in my reader and I hope as I eat every word that it never ends. Thank you!

October 23, 2008 at 10:26:00 AM PDT  
Blogger jenica said...

i cried through this whole post, as i always do when i even *think* about how happy i am for the expansion of the boho's.

it's all so natural, so right, so perfect. this child is your child.


October 23, 2008 at 11:43:00 AM PDT  
Blogger mames said...

chills. chills all over me...i cannot wait to meet the wee one.

October 23, 2008 at 11:57:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Amy said...

Tears, chills, happy swelling in my heart for you, boho hubby and sweet, precious boho baby. XOXOXOXOX

October 23, 2008 at 12:02:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Alisa said...

I was so excited to see you had posted and could not wait to read more of your story. I am so over the moon happy for you and your words and photos brought me to tears...

I look forward to reading about your new and beautiful journey with your amazing family.

October 23, 2008 at 12:20:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Blessings to you all. *swoon*


October 23, 2008 at 1:44:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Kathleen said...

sobbing here.
smiling through tears of absolute happiness for you.
k and t have given you a gift beyond your dreams...but you and your man are giving them the gift of love and peace of mind.

nothing can measure up to either of those.

love to you.

October 23, 2008 at 2:14:00 PM PDT  
Blogger jen said...

huge hugs and blessings boho family! i am so happy for you!!!!!

October 23, 2008 at 2:21:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Wow. This is just wonderful. Wow! I can't wait til your first Mama post!


October 23, 2008 at 2:22:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Magicaldamselfly said...

I'll bet if one could see more clearly the nature part of these pics they'd surely see the fairies dancing and singing for you and Carsten.
Blessings to you both,

October 23, 2008 at 3:11:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

What an amazing, beautiful moment in time. I am speachless. I;m sobbing tears of joy for you all. I'm just so happy for you. And I am truly moved. That little boy is loved so much, it is just miraculous.

October 23, 2008 at 3:41:00 PM PDT  
Blogger bee said...

lovely boho MAMA (i can't get over how fun it is to say that in conjunction with you),

i can't wait for your baby to be born. and for all of you to be the family you are meant to be. i check frequently, thinking, "is he HERE yet??"

magickal. love-filled. wondrous. these words come to mind.

and i'll always be your love-warrior (lol). what a great term.

and thank you for the reminder that the world and the universe is as it should be....it has to be. you guys are getting your baby!!~

October 23, 2008 at 4:23:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Colorsonmymind said...

soooo amazing, perfect, beautiful.......

oiy-I am at a loss for words.

Tingly-clappy and dancy over here. So much joy....


October 23, 2008 at 4:57:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

No words could ever express how happy I am for all of you.

October 23, 2008 at 5:45:00 PM PDT  
Blogger all over the map said...

tears fell here. tears of joy. thinking of you two and K & T,
love to all of you. xo

October 23, 2008 at 6:15:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Deni & Carsten... T & K and BBB (Boho Babe Boy)

I am so happy for you all.
SO SO SO, endlessly SO!
What a lucky little baby :)

Hugs, love and prayers to you all.

October 23, 2008 at 10:31:00 PM PDT  
Blogger gina said...


October 23, 2008 at 10:43:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Lil said...

tears of joy from one mother to another.


October 24, 2008 at 5:31:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I am a silent reader of your blog.
but wanted to say how I cried WITH you.
how you INSPIRE me.
how I think that you and your handsome BOHO BOY are sooooo blessed.
and how THIS is the beginning of forever.
SO looking forward to hearing and seeing what unfolds!
(and maybe I'll post another comment or two here and their!)



October 24, 2008 at 5:33:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Mindy said...


October 24, 2008 at 6:01:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Jessica S. said...

so amazing...so beautiful...you are truly blessed and so is boho baby...

October 24, 2008 at 6:56:00 AM PDT  
Blogger jen said...

I am a stranger to you, and weeping with joy.

October 24, 2008 at 9:05:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Stacy said...

i can't stop tearing up at these photos, wildly anticipating the ones of him out of the belly and snuggled in your arms are coming soon.

love you so

October 24, 2008 at 9:06:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Your story has touched me deeply, as it has touched so many. You don't know me and I have never met you, but through your words and photos, I feel as though I know you--on a level that goes beyond the physical world.

Your openness and willingness to share your truth, your struggles and triumphs, has me believing, again, in the power of words and in the power of sharing those words with others.

What a blessed little baby--what a sweet family you will be.

Thank you for sharing your beautiful story.

October 24, 2008 at 9:35:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

blessing to you and your growing family. your baby is very lucky to have two parents who want him more than anything else in the world. every baby deserves to come into the world surrounded by such tenderness and love.

October 24, 2008 at 9:59:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Boho - I don't still have your address but want to send you a gift for you upcoming birth! Congrats - so glad this is happening.

Moxie Candice

October 24, 2008 at 10:05:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Heather said...

I'm so so happy for you, I feel so happy to watch all this happen for you.

October 24, 2008 at 10:27:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Brabarella Lingerie said...


October 24, 2008 at 11:39:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Angela Marie said...

Oh sweetie ~ I am so very happy for you and your hubby. Truly happy!


October 24, 2008 at 12:21:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

thank you for sharing your beautiful story, you tell it so well. i always feel calmer when i visit your web home, it's such a lovely place to visit :)
wishing you all the very best,
xo emily.

October 24, 2008 at 1:22:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Willow said...

I've been reading your blog for awhile now and I have to tell you that I could'nt be happier. Things have a way of working out. congratulations to you both.
Love and Light

October 24, 2008 at 1:22:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

I cant put into words what reading that made me feel....maybe there are no words for the emotion...its, beyond happy...its like justice, only a sweeter term....I am, from my tippy tippy toes, so happy for you..its just what it should be....and I am so eager to watch you bloom as a mama...you were born to be a mama....and this wee boy is the luckiest boy in the world to have you and C as parents and to have such a supportive, loving, embracing circle around him. Im in awe and just so lin love with you, this story, your journey and you own happiness. I love you for the support you have provided me recently and I just couldnt me more blissed out that your dreams are unfolding. Thank you for sharing this with me, with everyone. Hugs hugs and more hugs....

October 24, 2008 at 5:58:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Unknown said...

Tears everywhere. Even though I only know you through your blog, words cannot express how happy I am for you. You are a brave beautiful mama.

October 24, 2008 at 8:35:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Sarah said...

Hi Denise, It was so lovely to see you in person when you stopped into the bakery while you were visiting. What I meant to say then (but didn't because it seems so awkward to know so much about a strangers personal life), is that reading your blog was one of the things that inspired me to move and chase my dreams and I am so happy to see this dream of motherhood coming true for you.

October 24, 2008 at 10:52:00 PM PDT  
Blogger angela said...

denise, i'm just going to smile... silently and deeply smile.

and then these words... "What we are doing is so vulnerable and huge and unfamiliar that we feel we are being carried by all these amazing love-warriors in our life."

so beautiful.

and the thought, that baby is on its way. a family is on its way.

sending all of you the love... and a smile.


October 24, 2008 at 11:34:00 PM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Modems are sizzling and blogland is buzzing with this fabulous, glorious news!

Congratulations and beautiful blessings to you and your husband and to the luckiest little boho baby in the world!!!!

*a zillion squishie hugs*

October 25, 2008 at 7:00:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Ohhh, just beautiful! I'm so excited for you!

How completely special that you and K have formed a bond. I'm sure that it makes everything seem so much more real!

I can not WAIT to meet little boho baby... he is going to be a shining light!


October 25, 2008 at 9:38:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Louise said...

WOW that is just so beautiful and touching...
I am so happy for you and Boho boy!!

October 25, 2008 at 9:51:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Is it dumb that I'm almost afraid to say anything for fear of jinxing? I will throw caution to the wind! I am so, so happy for you two. Life is so amazingly wonderful. Congrats Boho Mama!

October 25, 2008 at 12:36:00 PM PDT  
Blogger cally said...

I am so excited to find your blog.

I love your photography.

And your writing.

I haven't read anything in a while that really makes me come down to life and think about it.


October 25, 2008 at 7:22:00 PM PDT  
Blogger boho girl said...

Sarah ~
It was wonderful to meet you at the bakery too. What a pleasant surprise. It made me smile the rest of the day...

We hope to come in there again soon. We'll look for you.

Thank you for your sweet words (and sweet treats).


October 25, 2008 at 7:36:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Unknown said...

God bless each of you. I can feel the love while I read your words and tears were streaming down my face.

While this may feel impossible in this moment, trust me when I tell you that the love will continue to grow.

And just when you feel that your heart is so full that it couldn't possibly stretch anymore...it does, daily.

Bless you.

October 25, 2008 at 9:59:00 PM PDT  
Blogger Just Me said...

What a beautiful photos of you, Boho Boy & K.!

It is indeed amazing that you four can get along, I can imagine that you had fears towards meeting K and T.

I find it beautiful that it all went smoothly, that you have much in common and that K and T. talk about 'your baby'.

The piece you write about your connection with Boho Baby touched me the most.

I am so happy for you & Boho boy and I wish you all will stay in touch after the birth of Boho Boy, if that is possible of course.

"It's all so bizarre...but a beautiful bizarre." you say, and it is.

Wish you two lots of love and wish K. a peacefull delivery.

October 26, 2008 at 3:49:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Dana and Daisy said...

Oh man, I am so wiping tears off my face right now.

October 26, 2008 at 10:27:00 AM PDT  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

dearest, sweetest bohos. we are so so happy for you. i can't believe it has happened this way, so sweetly-except knowing you, how could it have been any other way? big love to you and carsten. you deserve this so much. and so does your new baby boy!
love, pixie

October 27, 2008 at 11:40:00 AM PDT  
Blogger Unknown said...

I was blog hopping today--from my friend Amy Tan to her friend Tara Whitney and that's how I found you. This story, it's so personal to me--I'd love to talk to you more about it. For now...I'm off to read the rest of your story.

: )

August 3, 2009 at 1:58:00 PM PDT  

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